Dear Pumpkin...

I keep reading how that when you are pregnant, you should journey your thoughts and feelings for your baby.  As my ninth week comes to a close, I have had many thoughts, but probably fleeting ones that my baby, aka "pumpkin", will probably never really care to know.  However, I am doing all the other things like not eating lunch meat, cutting back of caffeine and taking boats loads of vitamins, so this blog is for you little teddy gram. 

Dear Pumpkin Siegl (don' worry, we have plans to change your name before you're born),

Over the last nine weeks I have felt panic, joy, irritation, depression, more panic, exhaustion, annoyance, sick, and more panic.  While I have wanted you since I was three, and had a bald cabbage patch doll named Trevor, I was not quite prepared for your arrival into my life.  It kind of felt like watching Dumbo like when all the baby animals fell from the sky from the storks and all the mommy and daddy animals got excited and nervous all at the same time.

Then all the weird changes in my body began.  First, I felt like I had the flu (or a bad hangover) relentlessly for the last five weeks.  I know you were here because I almost threw up at the Taste of Tippicanoe when your daddy and I decided to share a lamb slider while attending with your grandparents (Grandma and Grandpa Byrnes).  Maybe it was the mint or hint of rosemary, but in that moment, I felt sick to my stomach like never before.  All of the sudden mommy felt like she was going to throw up all day every day.  One week, I wanted chicken tacos and ate tacos five times in four days.  One week, I wanted cheese pizza.  One week I liked PBJ sandwiches.  Mommy went from drinking gallons of coffee and diet coke to drinking Gatorade, water and really anything that didn't make me sick.  Most of the time, I just didn't want to eat or drink anything at all.

This week I feel much better and have eaten a little more.  I only feel sick in the evening after work and I normally take a three hour nap after being in the hot car and working with kids all day.  Growing a baby is hard work.  You have to take vitamins, folic acid, some tylenol for body aches, b6 vitamins and unisom so you don't throw up and sometimes this other pill that's suppose to make you feel better (it really doesn't, but at least sometimes I like to pretend it might work).   You also have to keep being yourself that you were before you were pregnant, but figure out ways to slow down and take care your body.  Mommy has had a very hard time with this because she used to like to be busy-busy-busy all the time.  But since you came into my life, I have started to relax more and let Daddy take control more often.   Poor daddy has been left alone most nights to play volleyball and basketball with his friends, walk Macy, and eat junk food while Mommy usually sleeps on the couch and tries to catch up on her paperwork for work.  (I think he likes that part a little bit).

Everyone is so excited for you.  This week we told the world about you and over a hundred people made comments on facebook.  What's facebook?  Well, its this thing on the computer... (I'll explain later).  I think a lot is about to change in my life.  So much already has.  But I think I am getting more and more ready for you to come.  Not quite 100% ready, but they say most mommies are never really ready.  Grandma says that they don't give parents a book on how to be a good parent.  So be patient with us.  I am sure we are about to make big mistakes like forgetting diapers when we go out to dinner or not getting the bath water just right, but we will promise to always try our best.

From here on out, if you want to decrease the heart burn, acid reflux, and stomach pains, I am a-ok with that.  If not, I guess I will just keep sleeping and you can listen to the television in the background.  Just wanted to let you know, we love you, and you are slowly becoming the center of our world.  Be good, grow steady, don't pull any plugs, and don't come out until I say so.

Love,

 your mother (and hopefully future best friend once your an adult)

PS. Dad and the grand parents say hi.  The Byrnes' hope you're a boy and hope you play football at Purdue, and the Siegl's are just happy for a grand baby.  Don't feel like your disappointing anyone if you're a girl.  Mommy really wants a girl, but will be happy no matter how you come out.  Enjoy your hibernation!